If you are following my blog, you know that I am a person who always has hard time saying no.
A coursemate asked for a favour which, I think, is not sensible. Adequate information has been given online by our lecturer. Some guidance and suggestions have been given to each group by the lecturer.
I have sent my group analysis to her for guidance too (I had the courage to send because the object of analysis is different for each group, just that we are using the same approach).
Yesterday night, she called. She asked for a favour…She sent me her group analysis….asking me to guide them with the answer…guide? or she means give them the answer? I don’t know. But I feel I have helped her a lot and the lecturer too.
I was thinking to help her. Maybe for once. No more second time. However, after talking this through with my dear roommate, I have decided to say no to her.
My heart was wondering between ‘yes’ and ‘no’. There was inside battle. ‘No’ wins somehow. I did say no at last. And guess what? I feel a weight lifted from my heart. So free and relaxed. The light dawns on me that it is the best feeling when we are being ourselves, walk our way.
Good improvement…I said no at last… Dear friends, I am not easily bullied ok?