The Love Puzzle

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Where there are humans, there is love
When you are reading a book, it’s about love

Love is everywhere
The world is more crowded now
But our love is diminishing everywhere
Higher divorce rate, abuse cases, suicidal cases and more now

If you says you are suffering because of love
You love not in a right way
It is not love
Love is not this way

You say your love is not returned
Your love goes unappreciated
You are neglected
You feel disappointed
You are suffering because of love

No, it’s not
You are suffering because of your ego
You want love returned to clear your emptiness
You give love to get something back
You give love with expectation
 
Your lover breaks his promise
You don’t know that things and people are changing every second

Promise is not a business contract
It is just an expression of the feeling the person feel at the moment of words
“I am going to love you forever!” he said.
He was not lying
The promise is true
But changes happen
So you can’t stop the promise from ebbing away

If you love someone
it’s not because of his look,money, status, wisdom, good treatment towards you and your family, success, good heart…
It is just because you love him
Simply love him for no reason

If you love him for something in him
If that something changes
You no longer love him
This is unreasonable
It means you never love him
You only like him as he has something you don’t have, something you want to have

If you love him,
No matter how is he or how is the world
It will never change

Love is not for something from outside
It is for …
Something in yourself
Something you want to express
It is something across our human race
It is for just to love

It is still okay to be all alone
As long as he is happy

If you feel that his happiness neglects you
And you grab away his happiness
He will turn sad
Sad people look ugly
You won’t be happy with a sad face around you
He in turn grabs away your happiness
Both of you are sucking one another’s happiness
End up with nothing but misery
As the saying goes, “misery loves company.”

Let him have his own space and freedom
If you keep a horse
Let it have a wide spread of green grass
If not, it will run away

The more you love and give,
The more the fill in your heart
The more you expect and control,
The more you lose and need.

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