Our wish isn’t the person’s wish

Sometimes, we always grab away the power of decision from our loved one
The reason we give is that our decision is the best one for our loved one

Parents choose the course of study their child is going to pursue
because they believe it can lead to lucrative jobs
Father makes his whole family the followers of a religion
because he thinks it is the best religion
Sister decides the place to travel for the whole family
because she thinks it is the most interesting place

When we love someone

we don’t make them live the way we wish
we don’t ask ourselves what we can give them

but we ask them what they need

What is selfishness?

Selfishness means the action of asking people to live as we wish them to.

To love someone to to put yourself in the person’s shoes
and look from the person’s perspective.

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